Temple events are a bit more guided than a typical lifestyle party. We say its more like the theatre and less like the club. We ask everyone to arrive on time in order to close our container and start as a group. Following a gathering and social time, each event begins with a consent talk followed by a guided activity, ritual, teaching, or performance in alignment with the theme. Our themes vary from artistic, educational, conscious sex positive events, and more typical “lifestyle” parties. We aim to bridge the gap between the conscious sexuality, kink, and swinger communities. Most find our events to be a welcoming and comfortable space.

If you would like to join, or know of others who would like to attend, please fill out the application form. We do not allow entry by anyone who has not been vetted prior to the start of an event.

Invitations are sent by text message and RSVP is required. You will need your electronic ticket to check in. If it is your first event you will be asked to sign a liability waiver.

The practice of femme empowerment recognizes the disparity between genders that currently exists in adult spaces. At Temple events, the invitation is to the feminine. It is their decision to invite masculine energy if they so desire. We do not allow unaccompanied masculine energy into our events. Their role, when invited, is to curate a safe environment by respecting boundaries, setting aside any ego, and celebrating the divine feminine while providing a supportive experience for their partner.

We provide towels, pillows, blankets, and personal safety products. Bring your favorite toys and outfits. We always have light refreshments and snacks but do not serve alcohol, bring your own if you wish to partake.

Every event will have a “Sanctuary” space where no play is allowed. This is to get away from the energy of the event, have a private conversation, or just decompress if needed.

Unless there’s an event theme, we generally recommend wearing what we call ‘Temple Wear’ — not your nicest heels and suit but comfortable clothes with not too many pieces to it. Lingerie, leggings and a tank top, robes are all great choices. There is always a space to change and store belongings.